May 3: Fyodor Vlyasynichnik, remembrance of ancestors and fishing ban

      On Sunday, Orthodox Christians commemorate the Venerable Theodore the Trichine (the Hairy One) — a monk who wore rough clothing made of camel hair against his bare skin. In the folk calendar, this day was called the Calling of Ancestors, Theodore the Netter. We tell about traditions, prohibitions, and unusual holidays around the world.

      Orthodox Holiday

      On May 3, the Orthodox Church honors the memory of Venerable Theodore the Trichine (the Hairy One) — a Constantinople monk who lived between the 4th and 9th centuries. He came from a noble and wealthy family but renounced worldly luxury in his youth and went to the monastery. Theodore wore rough, prickly clothing made of camel hair (the hair shirt) against his bare skin, which earned him his nickname. He became famous for his gift of miracles and healing the sick. After his death, the relics of the saint remained incorrupt, and fragrant myrrh flowed from them. This day also commemorates the martyr infant Gabriel of Bialystok, Venerable Alexander of Oshevensk, and the saints Gregory and Anastasius I the Sinaite. The significance of this Sunday in the church calendar is the Sunday of the Paralytic, the fourth Sunday after Easter. In churches, a passage from the Gospel about the healing of a man who suffered for 38 years at the Sheep Pool is read.

      Traditions of the Day

      In the folk calendar, May 3 was called the Calling of Ancestors, Theodore the Netter, and Theodore's Day. It was believed that on this day the veil between worlds thins, and the souls of the deceased can temporarily return to the homes where they are remembered. Our ancestors said: "On Theodore, the dead long for the earth." The main ritual of the day is the calling of ancestors. Early in the morning, at dawn, the elder women of the family would go to the cemetery. Standing by the graves, they would loudly lament and call out to their parents, saying special words: "Arise, awaken, look upon your children, peek at us, orphans, from your little homes, and comfort us with kind words!" It was believed that the earth opens up and souls can fly into the light of God. If a trip to the cemetery was impossible, the ritual was performed at home: candles were lit before icons, and ancestors were called from the threshold.

      After the cemetery, a rich memorial table was set. Important rules for the meal: something hot (cabbage soup, porridge, roast) was served on the table, as it was believed that souls feed not on the food itself but on the steam that comes from it. Mandatory dishes included kutya and kissel. The meal began with three spoons of kissel — in memory of the departed. An extra plate and utensils were set for the ancestors, and an empty chair was left at the head of the table for the eldest soul of the family. The table was always covered with a new white tablecloth to not scare away happiness.

      After midnight, the family would go out into the yard and listen to the silence. When the first gust of wind blew, it was believed that the souls had returned to the afterlife.

      This day is also associated with agricultural signs. On May 3, the sowing of pumpkins, cucumbers, and beans began, and peasants prayed to Saint Theodore for a rich harvest. Medicinal herbs were also gathered on this day: coltsfoot, lungwort, and mint. It was believed that herbs collected on May 3 have special power.

      What Not to Do

      There are many strict prohibitions associated with this day. The main prohibition is to fish and eat fish. It was believed that at this time, fish spawn, and catching them is a great sin for which the water spirit may punish. Washing bed linens was not allowed — it could provoke bad dreams and insomnia. Washing was only permitted in extreme cases and only for children's clothes.

      It was forbidden to quarrel, argue, and wish evil — otherwise, the ancestors might be offended, and there would be no peace in the house. It was not allowed to speak ill of the deceased — it would lead to misfortune. It was not recommended to engage in heavy physical work before noon, so that household chores would not distract from communicating with the family. It was also advised not to water houseplants to avoid angering the water spirit.

      Marriage and baptism ceremonies (getting married, having a wedding, baptizing children) were prohibited — it would lead to misfortunes in the family. Divorce was not allowed. Wearing clothes inside out was forbidden — it would lead to a spoiled day and headaches. Wearing black or dark clothing was associated with gloom and sorrow. It was not recommended to lend or borrow money — it would lead to financial losses. Covering the table with an old tablecloth was forbidden — it would lead to troubles.

      Weather Signs

      On May 3, our ancestors predicted what the summer and harvest would be like based on the weather. A lot of cones on fir trees foretold a generous wheat harvest, while on pine trees — a good rye yield. The first thunder on this day was interpreted as a harbinger of a rich harvest. A double or triple rainbow indicated improved weather but promised heavy rains soon.

      A rainy and cold May, on the contrary, indicated that honey should not be expected that year. If rain fell with lightning but without thunder — it would lead to clear weather. Blooming yellow flowers foretold warm weather soon. The appearance of mosquitoes confirmed the onset of stable warmth.

      If there are many full cones on the pine tree, the grain will yield well. Hearing a nightingale in still bare trees foretold a poor harvest. Dried-out soil indicated a meager harvest.

      Unusual Holidays Around the World

      In addition to Orthodox and folk traditions, several unusual holidays are celebrated around the world on May 3.

      World Press Freedom Day. Established by the UN in 1993 in memory of the Windhoek Declaration signed on May 3, 1991, in Namibia. The main event of the day is the awarding of the UNESCO World Press Freedom Prize for contributions to the cause of press freedom, as well as honoring journalists who died in the line of duty.

      World Sun Day has been celebrated since 1994. It is an occasion to recognize that the Sun, as a powerful source of cosmic energy, determines the ecology of the planet, providing light and warmth essential for life. The day draws attention to the use of renewable energy sources.

      Turkism Day (Turkic Solidarity Day). The holiday is associated with the date of May 3, 1944, when the last court hearing on the case of pan-Turkism activists took place in Turkey.

      Constitution Day in Poland. Poles take pride in the fact that on May 3, 1791, they adopted the very first written constitution in Europe.

      Constitution Day in Japan. On May 3, 1947, a new constitution came into effect in the country, establishing parliamentary democracy and enshrining the renunciation of war as a means of resolving international disputes.

      Mother's Day in Lithuania. Celebrated on the first Sunday of May. Solemn services are held in churches, and at special ceremonies, awards are given to heroic mothers raising seven or more children.

      Confectioner's Day in Russia — a professional holiday for specialists who make life sweeter.

      Garden Meditation Day — an unofficial holiday encouraging people to stop, breathe out, and enjoy the silence of nature.

      Old Mat Day, Day of Shoes of Different Colors — humorous holidays reminding us that even the most ordinary things can be approached with humor.

      Poetry Festival in Toulouse (France) — a poetic competition of the Academy of Floralies, held annually in the city since the 14th century. Winners receive prizes made of flowers.

      Diana Salikhzanova